So what kind of questions are best for a new, potential boyfriend or girlfriend?
We’ve come up with 8 awesome questions that will help you get to know this new certain someone and see what they’re all about, before you take it to the next level. What part of my profile made you want to contact me?
The answer to this question could tell a lot about your potential match.
I mean, it’s great they were attracted to you and clicked on your picture out of curiosity, but did they even take a second to read over your profile before sending over a message?
And if that’s what you’re looking for too, by all means, go for it.
Either way, find out whether he’s looking for a fling, to casually date, or wanting something long-term.4. Is he new to the game and never had a girlfriend for more than 3 days, or has he just gotten out of a marriage?
This is a great starter question that will open up the door for plenty of other fun communications.2. Finding out right off the bat if you’re even his type is an obvious must.
I mean, if he likes a quiet, shy girl with a degree who loves to read and write and you’re more of an outgoing gal with a different event planned every day of the week, you might not hit it off.
Find out what he’s looking for, and if it sounds like you may be the girl of his dreams, keep talking. Whether you’re meeting someone online, at a bar, through a mutual friend, or at the grocery store, you should always inquire about what they are looking for.
(And obviously find out if he has all the qualities and traits you’re looking for too! Men and women tend to be a bit more blunt and honest on online dating sites since they aren’t face to face with the person on the receiving end of the message, so you’ll probably run into a lot of people blatantly stating they want a one night stand.
Knowing his or her relationship past can help you to determine how understanding he is of relationships and whether or not he is going to be a long-term thing or not.5. Trust me, you want to know the answer to this question.
You should always know WHY someone ‘approached’ you and picked YOUR profile out of the rest.
Was it your stunning profile picture, or the witty ‘about me’ section you spent 3 hours putting together?