Just like anything else, these things require practice to figure out.
Of course, the guy behind the counter must have been so used to women buying sex toys because he looked rather bored. Now, I will walk into any sex shop I choose to, buy whatever I choose to, and won’t give a second thought to the person behind the counter, because I know what I want and I know when I am wanting it.
This is something every woman should be aware of, and the reason every woman should own a vibrator, at least one.
This can lead to understanding what you want with your partner and expressing it to them in the bedroom, shower or anywhere else you may be.
Using a vibrator allows you to learn what turns you on, but it also helps you discover what doesn’t turn you on or get you all hot and bothered.
You could surprise your lover or partner with something new you found you enjoy, they may enjoy, or even better that you both enjoy. Vibrators are not just for solo use though, as they can also be used to improve the sexual activities between partners.
My first vibrator was purchased when I was 21 years old.
I bought it from a sex shop that had one of those peep show deals in the back room and I was so embarrassed when I was looking at them, and even more so when I took it up to be paid for.
Things that used to turn you on when you were younger may not do the same thing for you anymore, just as turn-off’s could be more enjoyable than before.
Then there is the fact that great lovers are not born, they are made.
This is because it is in human nature to learn as we go along and discover things.
This includes being better in the sack, so another great reason to own a vibrator and use it is to gain more practice.